- What is the most foolish argument you've had in the past month? How did it begin? How did it end?
- Think about the person with whom you argue more than anyone else. Why do you think this happens?
- Why do you think many arguments eventually lead to people gossiping about each other?
- Where are you most likely to be when you hear gossip? Why do you think that's true?
- How have relationships in your life suffered because of arguments or gossip?
- Read Proverbs 26:20. Rewrite the verse in your own words.
- How does this verse suggest you can bring an end to arguments and gossip? Is this a reasonable solution? Why or why not?
- How would your life be better if you cut in half the number of arguments or quarrels you have?
- What damaged relationship(s) would you like to see restored? Could this proverb help you end the fighting and bring restoration?
- Sometimes, ending an argument requires us to stop putting "coals on the fire". This is very difficult, especially when we are convinced we are right. Think about 2-3 conflicts you have had (or are having) in which you can stop feeding the flames.
- What specific actions will you take as a result of studying this proverb? How can you surround yourself with people who will support you in this effort?
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